Something I’ve seen first hand, time and time again is people who chase after “The Good Life.” You know… wife and kids. A house. Nice car. A job to brag to their friends about. Fancy clothes. Sound familiar?
It’s something I was taught to chase after as a kid. It’s the lie I was fed about what it takes to be happy. I’ve been in that trap before. I’ve had the really nice clothes and cars and shit. That’s really all it is… Shit. It doesn’t make you happy.
There is one piece of advice that seems to be pretty standard I’ll give most of my clients when it comes to women: Be more aggressive.
If you’ve been around the pick up community for any length of time, I’m sure it’s something that you’ve already heard. The only problem is nobody every really takes the time to explain what “be more aggressive” actually means.
Over the last decade of my life, I’ve had a wide range of different experiences with women. I’ve been with strippers and party girls to teachers and office type of chicks. There are indeed a lot of different fish in the sea.
I’ve been married and divorced. Played the single game for almost 4 years. I’ve been with my fair share of girls and I will tell you straight up, there are certain girls that are NOT girlfriend material. I’ve also been in a relationship with an amazing woman for the last 3 years.