They say it takes men a lot longer to get over a break up than women. I’ve heard this more times than I can count. After getting divorced back in 2009, I can say that it was one of the hardest things to go through in my life.
As men, when we get married or into a serious relationship with a woman, we tend to start building a life with her, our queen, being a big piece of that puzzle.
While I may not be a “certified personal trainer” when it comes to lifting but weight training has become a major part of my life. Plus, my legs are fucking tree trunks and I can squat the house to say the least.
Something I’ve seen first hand, time and time again is people who chase after “The Good Life.” You know… wife and kids. A house. Nice car. A job to brag to their friends about. Fancy clothes. Sound familiar?
It’s something I was taught to chase after as a kid. It’s the lie I was fed about what it takes to be happy. I’ve been in that trap before. I’ve had the really nice clothes and cars and shit. That’s really all it is… Shit. It doesn’t make you happy.